get over it. everyone act differently when bad things happens. some people are always open up for advice, some people keep on hiding, some people loves self defending, some loves lying, some loves diversify the focus, some loves to magnify the issues. whatever the approaches, the objectives are clear: to get the things solved.
for some reason, sometimes it is good to looked fool and act fool. very obvious u get to see all kinda people using all kinda approaches.
found out this features on my new Nokia N9, instead of touching the button shape over the flat screen i actually can just swipe through and it will form a word. quite nice feature loving it for now.
never hesitate. hesitate only meant for the indecisive people. when we hesitate, all constant become variables. the value changes. and so it will create statement like “IF”, “When”, “While”.
again i want to stress that the system have been putting up to the server for long before we putting to live and we already inform the user to check on the data accuracy. i have come up with the SER with all the column mapping and no else is validating the ducument and no one informed when there are changes over the original file. and now you are blaming us for the data integrity problem? does my team tagged with ” failure” on our back?
1. when you are indecisive, always made the decisions that keep you happy. i.e.throw a coin, if Head, i m getting this car. Tail, i m definitely getting this car!.
2. when you are in gravely ill, don’t tell me the statistics of failing medical cause, just go for the doc, at least there are % rather than 0.
3. when you lost someone, it’s not end of the world. Today, you may be losing Daisy, tomorrow you might get Chloe. who knows?
4. never say never.
5. listen to advice, be open minded but made the decision yourself. even if you would toss a coin, toss it yourself.
6. do it when you have the chance, the thought of “next time” is bad. it may not happens in any near future. chance never waits.
7. when everything fails, don lose hope, it just show how we find ways to make it fails. just don’t made the failure again.
8. don lose hope. hope is something that keeps us alive. hope gives will.