Posted in Snippets on 27, January, 2013| Leave a Comment »
The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2012 annual report for this blog.
Here’s an excerpt:
The new Boeing 787 Dreamliner can carry about 250 passengers. This blog was viewed about 1,400 times in 2012. If it were a Dreamliner, it would take about 6 trips to carry that many people.
Posted in Snippets on 24, January, 2013| 1 Comment »
当你得到一些东西的时候，同时间你失去了一些东西。在一个对称的世界里，天平是不会倾斜的。
所以也不需要去强求什么。那人是不是该无欲无求呢？反正一加一减，可能你得到的是你喜欢的，你失去的是你所厌恶的，那你最终还是会觉得多了你喜欢的东西，那比较值得呀？ 得失烦恼多，太计较得失，那你可能只活在计较当中。
你用了你的时间去上班，你得到了金钱，失去了时间。你喜欢吗？你喜欢，因为你觉得你付出的时间和你的收入成正比，你不喜欢，因为你觉得你付出的时间得不到你所想要的收入。
你喜欢上了一个人，你喜欢吗？你喜欢，因为他也喜欢你，所以你觉得你付出的时间有了价值，你不喜欢，因为你付出的时间但又得不到回报。
你用了金钱来作投资，你得到了回报，你开心，你失败了，你失落。
一得，你得到了你所要的东西，但是你真正的到了你所想要的吗？时间一久，你就另有所求。
一失，你得不到你所想要的东西，但是你是什么都没有得到吗？至少你得到了经验。
在人生不断的追求的得失当中，别太计较，享受着她的过程与经历，那才算是真正的活过了。
问老师：为什么这个世界充满烦恼与痛苦呢？
老师说：真正的烦恼痛苦，其实来自欲望，而活在欲海不可怕，可怕的是在欲海里淹没。我们都知道，紧握的双手抓不住什么，如果我们愿意放开手，让该来的来，该去的去，人生这趟旅程，才有可能优游自在。
“把手握紧里面什么也没有；把手放开，你得到的是一切。”
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Posted in Snippets on 24, January, 2013| Leave a Comment »
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呵呵最近感觉越来越像出世的修行者了。目空一切； 每天都很再坚持修行的我，是不是走火入魔了呢？老师说初学佛法，只谈出世，不谈 入世。可是我不是学佛法呀，我只是在修行而已。老师说出世入世，都归一心。
修行要定，生活也要定，上班要定，休息也要定。 何谓定？对我来说，定是坚持，定是目标。
那有了目标而坚持，就算被改变了而不离目标；万变而不离其终，那算是定吗？我不懂。 可能我懂，但我装不懂。
人说戒定慧，是要戒了定， 还是慧了定？
你来了吗？我从没离开过，你走了吗？我从没出现过
Posted in Snippets on 14, January, 2013| 1 Comment »
what are friendship? are they important to me?
to me, nothing can be more important that friends, in my living time, who help me the most when i am in need of hands? who had show me their hands when i need one? who gives me a pat on the back when i am being a failure? who had accompany my entire life time from the time i know to make friend until the end of my life? well parents only take cares of me like 1/2 of my living time, my wife and kids maybe another 1/2 of my living time? but friends? well although my good friends keep on changing from time to time, but yes, i gladly i have them with me from time to time.
well u never know when u are needing their help, but most of the time, they are just there, by physically or by spiritually, friends will always give u a cheer when u are in the sorrow, friends will pull u up when u fall, friends will laugh at u hard when they see u fall, doesnt matters, friends will show u their hands and makes u learn not to fall next time as their laughter will let u know it is a lessons to learn, never be afraid of friends, even with some that so called friends but stab u in the back,
Posted in Snippets on 14, January, 2013| Leave a Comment »
1. a new born baby, duh, what else
2. an english bulldog, if i may….
3.peace of mind…
4. get confirmation on work
6. gathering with best friends of mine… mr tee, stella, mr neo, mr lee and etc…
the longer i lived, the less desire i have… could it be ITE coming soon?
oh well when the time comes, i am ready to follow….
inferno's lair 