first thing first, what’s important? think. yes, u have to learn to think, think before you act, think before you say. think before you start doing anything. let me quote this for you:
Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.
when you starts thinking, things never goes wrong. look around you, you will easily find out who never use their brains to think, it is not difficult to find out, if you gets whom i am pointing to. if you do, papa is glad, it shows that the brains are developing well.
to help you to think, try to play chess, board games, brain teasing games, any games that utilized brains are good for you.
to help you to think further, then go open up your eyes, go see the world, see how much differences are in this world would be, how much differences from what you have lived up and this world, how small we are.
there are never be a good thoughts or bad thoughts, there are only positives and negetives thoughts, and please son, always keep the positive ones, negative thoughts brings no values but constructive and catastrophic consequences, it always leads you to the wrong decisions. in your character, you can be good or bad character, i do not mind that you would become a terrorist or mobster, just don;t make a wrong decisions due to the negative thoughts.
one mind at a time, too many minds, no good. well we will go through that when it reaches lesson no.95, concentrates.